At Balanced Minds we are interested in compassion, and how this can how a powerful, positive influence of peoples’ lives.
There’s now lots of evidence showing that when we’re compassionate to other people, this is associated with increases in pleasurable feelings, happiness, wellbeing and connection, and lower levels of stress and anxiety!
But for many people, there can be blocks or fears to being compassionate with other people. For example, worries that this will make us vulnerable or weak, or that our kindness will be taken advantage of. If you’d like to check whether you have fears of compassion to others, take our short test to find out!
Note: None of your data or responses to the questionnaire will be identifiable, stored, used or processed by us in any way
This questionnaire is based upon the Fear Compassion Scale, Gilbert, P., McEwan, K., Matos, M., & Rivis, A. (2011). Fears of compassion: Development of three self‐report measures. Psychology and Psychotherapy: Theory, research and practice
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Your scores are in the LOW range
Well done for completing this questionnaire. Your scores were in the lower range, which suggests that you have low fears of compassion from others.
Just like with fitness though, it might be useful to consider how to maintain your compassionate mind. If that sounds helpful, at Balanced Minds, we’ve got some options that might be helpful:
– Online Self-Compassion Course: https://balancedminds.com/online-self-compassion-course/
– Compassionate Mind Training Course: https://balancedminds.com/compassionate-mind-training-8-week-course/
– The Self-Compassion App: https://balancedminds.com/the-self-compassion-app/
And of course, if you’d like to meet with one of our therapists, they are all experienced in helping people to strengthen their compassionate minds: https://balancedminds.com/book-a-therapy-session/
If you’d like to keep on learning about yourself, take a look at other questionnaires here: To take further questionnaires, take a look here: https://balancedminds.com/questionnaires/
Your scores are in the AVERAGE range
Well done for completing this questionnaire. Your scores were in the average range, which might suggest that your fear of compassion from others is similar to people in the general population.
Given that high fears of compassion are associated with a number of other difficulties, like higher self-criticism and psychological distress, it might be worth considering how you can reduce this – and boost your self-compassion muscle.
At Balanced Minds, we’ve got some options that might be helpful:
– Online Self-Compassion Course: https://balancedminds.com/online-self-compassion-course/
– Compassionate Mind Training Course: https://balancedminds.com/compassionate-mind-training-8-week-course/
– The Self-Compassion App: https://balancedminds.com/the-self-compassion-app/
And of course, if you’d like to meet with one of our therapists, they are all experienced in helping people to strengthen their compassionate minds: https://balancedminds.com/book-a-therapy-session/
If you’d like to keep on learning about yourself, take a look at other questionnaires here: To take further questionnaires, take a look here: https://balancedminds.com/questionnaires/
Your scores are in the HIGH range
Well done for completing this questionnaire. Your scores were in the higher range, which suggests that the idea of receiving compassion from others might be difficult for you.
Given that high fears of compassion are associated with a number of other difficulties, like higher self-criticism and psychological distress, it might be worth considering how you can reduce this – and boost your self-compassion muscle.
At Balanced Minds, we’ve got some options that might be helpful:
– Online Self-Compassion Course: https://balancedminds.com/online-self-compassion-course/
– Compassionate Mind Training Course: https://balancedminds.com/compassionate-mind-training-8-week-course/
– The Self-Compassion App: https://balancedminds.com/the-self-compassion-app/
And of course, if you’d like to meet with one of our therapists, they are all experienced in helping people to strengthen their compassionate minds: https://balancedminds.com/book-a-therapy-session/
If you’d like to keep on learning about yourself, take a look at other questionnaires here: To take further questionnaires, take a look here: https://balancedminds.com/questionnaires/
1. People will take advantage of me if they see me as too compassionate
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2. Being compassionate towards people who have done bad things is letting them off the hook
Don’t agree at all Completely agree
3. There are some people in life who don’t deserve compassion
Don’t agree at all Completely agree
4. I fear that being too compassionate makes people an easy target
Don’t agree at all Completely agree
5. People will take advantage of you if you are too forgiving and compassionate
Don’t agree at all Completely agree
6. I worry that if I am compassionate, vulnerable people can be drawn to me and drain my emotional resources
Don’t agree at all Completely agree
7. People need to help themselves rather than waiting for others to help them
Don’t agree at all Completely agree
8. I fear that if I am compassionate, some people will become too dependent upon me
Don’t agree at all Completely agree
9. Being too compassionate makes people soft and easy to take advantage of
Don’t agree at all Completely agree
10. For some people, I think discipline and proper punishments are more helpful than being compassionate to them
Don’t agree at all Completely agree